There are two schools of thought. Then again there are two schools of thought in everything but that's another story for another time. We have "things come to those who wait" and "go after what you want". Which of these are true? I've tried both and nothing seems to work just the way it should.

I come upon a time where I'm not sure which would be better. I've sat waiting patiently for things to develop and nothing ever does. You sit back and become unnoticed. Thinking that it's best to let things figure themselves out and in the end everything will work out just fine. I even tried aggressively going for what i want and that too didn't pan out. Not concerned with the consequences and just going for it. No hesitations, no regrets. Neither helped nor worked. Well I can't say it neither worked. Trying both, I found that in the short term a solution was reached but during the long term, things just unravelled.

So which is it? Wait patiently or go after what you want or both? Because it's not possible to do neither. I am in search for the perfect solution, the perfect answer. Which do you do? Is it working for you? Let me know, email me and maybe we will all find out what to do to make things work out the way you want it.